Culture: System of symbols, beliefs, and values
Society: System of groups, roles, and norms
If you grew up in one society where you knew your place, and then grow up, get married and take your kids to a completely different society, can you really blame them for not copying you?
It's like me deciding to move my kids to Scotland so that they can grow up with a Scottish accent, but then I wonder why they've also developed interests in kilts and sheep.
[Durkheim and the Social Anthropology of Culture by James L. Peacock]